They say the first year of marriage is the hardest. Well is that the actual first year or the first year you spend living together? My husband and I are a month away from celebrating our 1 year marriage anniversary, however, we only lived together for 3 and a half months of this entire year.
After 3 and a half months, my husband was ready to call it quits on me. Why? Because the apartment wasn't clean, because I didn't do the dishes, because he didn't like coming home to a dirty apartment. Guess what? I have a job to. I come home, eat dinner, spend time with my hubby on the couch, and then we both go to bed. When do I have time to clean? You get the weekends off, why don't you clean a little every once in a while?
If I was a stay at home wife, this wouldn't be a big problem, because guess what... I wouldn't have anything else to do but clean!
So, now I'm moving back home and we are starting over. We are moving into a new place, going to see his family for Christmas and when we get back I will be a stay at home wife and mother, and be going to school.
So my question is does our one year start this second time or did we already beat the one year struggle by being together for a year?
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